Three Opinions Outside Anywhere, USA
Relax. It's a lot of buildings.
(Sometimes it
doesn’t warrant 800 words. I make a
small pile of ‘em to get them out of my brain.)
“I miss New York when it was
grittier, scarier.” I will never in a
million years understand this notion.
I’ve heard this a hundred times from former residents or admirers of New
York City. They resent the cleaned-up
Times Square, with tourist stores and ten-story neon signs. What they long for is the seventies and
eighties version, with widespread drug abuse, prostitution, peep shows, and
garbage lining the streets. Something
about this older version feels more authentic to them. More real and less sanitized. I’m assuming of course that they’re not
wishing they could be the victim of a crime; I just think that is somehow
looked cooler back then.
I’ve thought about this for years, especially
when it’s been pointed out that I’ve lived in one version of the suburbs or
another my whole life: The scary, bullet-ridden kind and the quieter kind where
you get the occasional noise complaint or occurrence of mailbox baseball. This may come as a shock, but I like the
quiet one better. See, my theory is that most of these people who prefer a scary
NYC lived some awesomely privileged lives. Congratulations, you’ve never been
scared to go home. Whether they had money or not, they likely didn’t live where
scary shit happened. Because if you did,
and you had the opportunity to escape. You’d realize that there are far worse
things than a giant M & M store. I’d
take a Disney movie-turned into a stage play over busted crack vials on the
street any day. You resent that your
childhood was boring, and you lived in a lame place. Be thankful.
Boring is good.
On a tangent, I’d like to also say
to any and all citizens of New York City that absolutely no one gives a shit
that you were born there, grew up there, or live there presently. There is nothing more narcissistic than New
York’s hometown pride. They are the
cream of the crop when it comes to believing that anyone is impressed that they
are from a place. They think it's like sharing a war story from a veteran, or
like you’ve climbed the Matterhorn with a donkey on your back. Nope.
You are from a huge city where millions of other people live. New Yorkers
love their city, and they have a lot of reason to. It’s an amazing place. But they seem to be under the delusion that
New York is the only city that exists.
It’s not.
The same goes from wherever you’re from,
too. Texas people believe it means
something to be from Texas. It doesn’t. Nobody cares.
Chicago, Detroit, Hawaii, Alaska, Miami, the Philippines, Hong Kong, Kalamazoo. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t love where
you live or be proud of a place that you’re from. I love Oregon. But I don’t expect anyone to give a shit. We also aren’t automatic representatives of
our hometowns. I’ve been asked about
Florida a bunch after I moved out here and I have nothing interesting to
tell. Outside of the Sunshine State,
it’s believed that Florida is part Wild West, part Hee-Haw, part Bizarro
World. It’s not. It's filled with plenty of lunatics and
shit-for-brains, but so is your state.
It’s just really fucking humid there.
I
guess the common thread today is the ideas of home and community. Not the actual town, but our attachment to the
idea of it. That brings me to an opinion
I have that surprises a lot of people. It bumps them because I have a degree in
history and I’ve always been mindful of historical contexts. I don’t care about preserving Main Street. I
remember a show on the History Channel before it became about Ice Road Truckers. It was about the push to keep the buildings
of the Main Streets of old towns intact.
Not for any historical significance necessarily, but just because it was
built in the forties or so and people don’t like the idea of it going away.
I
say, plow that shit. Unless it actually
has some historic value, (a historical figure's home, the site of an important
event, the first firehouse built in the state, etc.) I say it’s perfectly cool
to let that shit go. If Main Street
failed its Main Street’s fault. Main
Street is essentially a collection of business ventures. They failed over and over, so it’s time to
move on. These particular buildings were
there to participate in our shared capitalist system. They weren’t like more ancient towns, created
around churches or settled near waterways for international trade. Those places can still exist. They reinvent themselves over and over. A lot of these Main Streets were attempts to
attract business to small towns. They
wanted to play the game of capitalism and they lost. I don’t need to see why we
have to preserve that. I don’t care
about closing malls or old drive-ins either.
You can’t preserve something simply because it makes you bummed that an
era is gone.
What
was there before Main Street? A
meadow? Grazing land for indigenous people
and animals? No tears for letting that
turn into a Woolworth?
What
to put in the place of Main Street? I don’t know…maybe homeless shelters,
affordable housing, vocational schools, community food banks, community gardens,
pre-K’s, free clinics, city parks, transit systems, windmills, solar panels,
fruit trees, shade trees, community pools, adult care facilities, research centers,
infrastructure projects that attract workers, dog walks, dog parks, petting
zoos, farmer’s markets, art fairs, skate parks, skating rinks, festival
space…or you could just raze the whole thing and let nature have it back.